What to Do When Your Love Becomes Your Ex?

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Generally in love life takes a u-turn and the entire episode changes. The romantic songs which had bought million smiles and uncountable shivers in your body now ends up with tears, the busy phone remains idol, a sympathetic hand is enough to shatter you, your appetite becomes zero. Yes this is the scene when you accept you are ditched. There is no end to this sorrow but finally one has to realize what he/she desires. There are many options.

The first & common one is whether you want the same person back in your life. If yes then the best support is any common friend which is closed to both of you. He can fill the huge gap in a short span of time if there is even a small possibility.

Otherwise if you have decided to forget that ex than one should realize that the best medicine to do it is by ignoring the common friend circle as they remind you of your ex.

Loneliness is again the biggest enemy because an idol mind is a devils place. All good and bad memory strikes you continuously when you are lonely especially when you are shattered in your love life.

Thirdly you should avoid visiting the same places which were accompanied by you ex. The thought of past romantic walks, romantic spots and those shivering memories which will take you to your nerve will increase your wound to an infinite level.

You should try to remain busy in the thing which you love most except remembering your ex. You will not get an opportunity to remember him.

The level of depression increases if we talk upon the same matter or listen to sad songs.

Going away for a fortnight to a new place with new people will be a proper medicine to your heel. There are some people who try to shift to a new love in order to forget their ex. This is wrong as first of all there is no love in between but compromise and sooner or later they starts comparing them which destroy everything. You should give some space to yourself, try to understand your need, enjoy as mush as you can.

Love is nothing but a grave mental disease and it can be cured like any other diseases. Accept it, that your ex had never loved you as one who loves, never go away or ditch you for any said reason. Never try to find out reasons for his departure as it will leave a sense of inferiority. You will blame your every emotional and physical appearance for his unexpected leave. It is better to accept that your ex had left because he wanted to go. You were not able to stop him because he never wanted to stay.

Although these are meek suggestions but its your own determination which will help you in forgetting your ex. Always remember that every coin has to faces and what you are thinking to be your worst may be your best. Life is very precious and we should not spoil it consciously for some one who had never loved you.

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This article is written by Vineet Chawla, who is an owner of eDenz Web Solutions and having an expertise in content writing, seo services, internet marketing, and article submission. With the help of this article he has tried his best to represent the best useful info to the readers from all over the world.

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