Are you satisfied in the relationship you keep? You're in a
relationship but you feel like to break it.You want to be there but
something in you tells you to break the relationship.Your relationship
can make or break you. Every relationship you keep either moves you
towards your cherished dreams or away from them.
Everyone should
not be your friend.Friendship is a choice.Choose wisely.If you don't
have standard to live by you'll fall to other people's standard.You must
rise up and be in charge of your life. Do not allow anyone to
manipulate you.
There is a relationship that should be broken
while others should be nurtured.There are certain qualities that are
undesirable in a relationship if it should be continued.Such a
relationship ought to be broken and the may include the following:
1.DISHONESTY:If
you get intimate with dishonest people,you will learn their ways and
before know it,you will be like them.Some people are gifted in telling
lies without feeling any remorse.Anyone who cannot be honest in his/her
dealings with you who require you to give a back up to the lies is not a
good friend.Avoid such person
2.SELFISHNESS:There
are relationships where you discover that one person does all the
giving while the other does all the taking. While one makes all the
sacrifices to keep the relationship,the other only makes demand.One
person does all the caring,visiting,giving,and caring while the doesn't
care.Such is one-sided ,selfish relationship. A good relationship is one
in which were both parties are ready to make sacrifices and compromises
for the comfort of the other.Are you being used in this
relationship?Think fast.
3.STRUGGLES:You
don't struggle to keep a relationship.When you're struggling to to get
the attention of the other or to please the other without any willing
response from him/her,then you may be in the wrong place.You do not to
be what you're not in order to make a relationship work.
4.UNGODLINESS:Any
relationship in which you're required or compelled to do evil in order
to foster the relationship is a bad one.For example ,if you're required
to have sex in order to show how much you love the order,then the
relationship is ungodly.Some may require you to tell lies,steal or even
manipulate other people in order to please your partner.Simply break
that relationship.
5.UNFORGIVING:Any
one who likes to keep and remind you of your past mistakes and
offenses will kill your future.Such persons refuse to give you another
chance to overcome your failures.They tie you to your weaknesses and
expect you cannot overcome your limitations with them.They expect you to
pay for any offense you commit against them even though the claim to be
friends.You have to seek their face and beg before are forgiven.Break
such relationship.
6.IMPOTENCE:By
impotence,I mean people who are not productive in their life. The have no
dreams to pursue and they have no good thing to contribute to your
life. Such people hang on to your life with the tag of
schoolmates,family friends or childhood friends. They hang on to you
because of the things the will get from you.Anytime,anywhere,anyhow,such
people will always make demands on you. They have no relevance to your
dreams.Some of them come around and only consume your time while some
use you to boost their ego. Do measure the worth of any relationship by
its contribution to you chief goals.
7.RESISTANCE:Some
relationship come as assignment to you. It is such ones that your gift
or potentials are exercised.You may be required to effect a change in
the other. But when the other is resistant to positive change,after all
that you have done to overcome their weakness,quit the relationship. Such
people resist your efforts to help them. Sometime they avoid you and
later surface again. Such a relationship should be broken because they
will only frustrate your time and energy; they friends with bad habits or
characters.
In conclusion, it is time to asses your
relationships. Its your choice to make. Your destiny is in your
hands. There are some relationships that are distractions to your
dreams.For example, if you are a spinster,and there are men who hang
around you without any good motive. Your ability to identify such men and
stay away from them will determine how fast you move towards your
dream. If you know that you are not ready for marriage,do not commit your
life,emotions,desires and ambition to someone else. Some ladies accept
proposal for marriage from men who do not have any work,some of such men
still depend on their father's pocket money. Some men are not sure of
what they want,Any fair girl is good for them. If you are involved with
such men,then it is time to break such relationship. If you don't break
it now,it will break you tomorrow. Accept the pain now as a price for your joy tomorrow.
Inthe subsequent part of this article I would reveal more powerful tips on how to avoid one-sided love.Don't miss it.
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Thanks for reading
Onuorah Chukwu
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