What Not To Tell Your Date About Yourself?

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While you may leave many things unsaid to your date because they are not important, some things are best left unsaid.  You wouldn't want to turn off the person you're dating to the point they determine they're really not interested in you after all! So, here are some tips help you determine what to or not to discuss with your date that you don't need to:

1) The first thing to avoid discussing with your Date is to discuss regarding your past boyfriend, girlfriend or former spouse! This is a strict no, no.  No one wants to hear about how wonderful or distasteful your past girlfriend, boyfriend, or former spouse was! Instead of the past dwell on the future with your date.  If you talk too much about your past. Your date might think you're trying to make them like your past date or spouse, and this may be a turn off for them!

2) Never talk about money.  Whether you have plenty of money or lack of it is a secondary issue when two hearts meet.  Don't make an impression on your date that money is more important than a relationship.  Talking money could end your relationship for you.

3) Engaging in gossip about your past dates, friends, family and others is not a good idea.  It's really not the right thing in a dating relationship.  Most people see others that gossip as busy bodies who have to be involved in everyone else business but their own! While some amount of gossip is tolerated in a family, gossip in a new relationship could be turnoff as your date could be a person that values their privacy and is a non gossiper. 

4) Past intimate relationship should never be discussed.  This is a definite no for discussion.  This may make your date very uncomfortable and put them in an awkward position as to what you may or may not expect from them.  So don't discuss your past intimacies! Steer far away from this topic.  Don't even talk about it! This would be your best bet in your new relationship if you don't want to create waves.

5) If you cheated on your previous date, don't even think about talking about this in your new relationship! Not even as a confdession because you may be feeling guilty.  No one wants to hear about you cheating in a relationship.  If you decide to talk about this subject, be prepared for your date to possibly tell you to take a hike! They may decide that they don't want to risk the chance of you cheating on them, since you have a history of doing this! You do have a preexisting history of cheating, remember you told them so.  Get the picture, don't talk about it!

6) Anything else that you believe would not be something important that you'd want to tell your date about you.  Don't tell it, if it's not important!

Dating is the beginning of a new relationship where all negativities are best avoided.  Even if you consider it as a honest and being open some of the things are best left unsaid as you can realize from what not to talk. Well, you've probably got a good idea on what you should not tell your date.  After all, do you want to keep dating the person you're with, or do you want to keep looking for someone new? You're possibly saying to yourself, I really would like to continue dating the person I'm with.  Then, if this is the case, don't scare them away from you! Remember, some things are best left unsaid if the information is not important to the relationship.

Srinivasan Gopal is an author, syndicated writer and a management professional.  Loves the internet and webmaster of www.internetbusinessprofit.info/affiliate-marketing a website where you can find answers to many of your How To's on affiliate marketing

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