Flirt is An Art

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Believe it or not flirting is not less than an art. The key is to learn ‘how to flirt'. Is it true nothing makes our cheek flush; eye sparkle and hearts beat with excitement more than when an acceptable suitor or suite is playfully flirting with us.

No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it is not necessary to be mind-bogglingly attraction, rich, smooth-talking, or good at batting your eyelashes. Lean towards the one you are trying to attract, and frequently make eye contact. Catch his/her eye and look back directly into them for a few seconds longer than usual. Do not over do this, as you may seem threatening. If these eye contacts trigger a smile, you can approach your target with confidence.

To attract the attention of an attractive stranger in the midst of a crowded party, try an eyebrow-flash. This should make your target think that you must be their long lost friend or acquaintance, even though he or she may not initially recognize you. If you are skillful, you can use this confusion to initiate a lively discussion about where you might have met before. If your dating interest gives you a deep-toned, low pitched, slow, and drawn-out good evening, with a slight rising intonation at the end, as though asking you a question, it is probably an indication of attraction or at least an interest. Attraction and interest, surely communicate much more by the tone of voice than by what is actually said. Depending on the tone, volume, speed, and pitch, even a simple phrase such as "Good evening" can convey anything from "Wow, you are gorgeous" to "I find you totally uninteresting and I'm looking for an excuse to go away."

Remember, body language speaks louder than words, and unlike a conversation, it is much more difficult to conceal your true intentions through your physical actions. So, watch your moves. Point your legs and feet in your interest's direction while sitting and angle your shoulder towards him/her. Ladies should fidget more, possibly fiddling with their jewelry, twisting their finger rings, and tugging at their necklaces. Touch your earring or a watch around the wrist; as these are all located around pressure points indicating a high pulse rate and excitement in your heart. The twisting, twirling, and flicking motions with your hair, all send signals that you are interested. Repeat this activity three times within a minute and you can be sure your love interest would give you instant attention.

Toss your hair around, stroking and combing it, and generally moving it away from face and shoulders to expose soft bare skin of the neck. Wetting your lips, putting on lipstick, or eating something slowly with great pleasure and be sure it attracts his attention. When sitting with your legs crossed, bounce your foot back and forth rhythmically while dangling one shoe off the toe. While talking or listening to a prospective partner, slowly stroke your drink glass, but do not make it too obvious. A welcoming smile usually indicates a sincere content with the situation. 

Feroz Ahmed Bawany goal is to increase my knowledge and to understand the only civilized creations of Almighty Lord are HUMAN. He is a regular contributer to TRCB.com.

 

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