Why Successful Men with looks Play Women
If you think just because a guy has money and looks that he
will just attract all desirable women, then you need to tune into the show Millionaire
Matchmaker on Bravo or The Bachelor.
Shows clients are good looking, mostly young, millionaires who want to meet the
love of their life and are having problems doing so. They engage Matchmaker
services so that it introduces them to a woman matched up to them--it's kind of
a done for you deal.
The dates are, of course, filmed, and that's when hilarity ensues. Obviously
the guys are chosen to make for good TV, but that's almost irrelevant.
What is relevant is watching rich, good looking guys turn into complete
and utter player in front of women.
What is more relevant is witnessing the attitudes of the
women change towards these guys after spending a few hours with them. They
start out excited and giddy to be matched up with a good looking, successful guy,
and leave downright confused and
disappointed, wondering how a guy who appeared to be so right could wind up so
wrong.
It's not that these guys are turning into abusive jerks, mean spirited fools,
or chest puffing show off's. Quite the opposite--many are very awkward
around women, have no clue about what to say, and worst of all look to the
woman to lead in the interaction.
What happens is, the women quickly draw the conclusion that since they
are not experiencing any chemistry, there must be something seriously wrong
with these guys. After all, they "should be" attractive, but
they're not--they're repulsive, and once that line
is crossed, all bets are off.
If you haven't watched the show read news, you should tune
in and watch it. It will prove to you once and for all that looks and money
have little to do with attraction, and behavior has everything to do with
attraction.
These guys have the wrong behavior, and it kills attraction each and every time
regardless of their external advantages. But as the saying goes "Easy come easy
go" Only the right behavior creates attraction, They take advantages of
each other... nothing more, nothing less.
So, tune into the shows or watch your men with women
advantage around your area. At the very least, you will learn something-- how to attract women... and that not a bad place to start.
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