Every relationship tolerates by an unsaid imperative about keeping your love and emotions together, of sharing everything, right from your daily concerns and problems to your emotional dilemmas with the person that you are in love. But what if your soul finds comfort in the shelter of someone you can neither call your lover and nor friend? Are you betraying your loved one and indulging in emotional infidelity?
When a partner shares intimate feelings with another person, is perhaps preoccupied with thoughts of that person, and even craves for spending more quality time with him/her. It all started with the we are just friends but the connection became noticeable by the long hours we spent discussion confidentially on phone and the vibes that were being set off by both of us. Being on par professionally helped us bond regarding our career, and having similar traits drew on a more human level. It was an unspoken bond and though we never confessed our feelings, we were deeply bonded.
Is emotional deceit a bigger sin? Is emotional attachment to someone else other than your partner a more blatant betrayal than a physical adulterous affair? If a husband take a night stand, it will surely hurt his wife because she is involve in his life and this sudden act can put many imaginaries in her mind. But if she caught her love in an extra emotional affair, it will certainly knock the wind out.
An emotional involvement is definitely harder to accept because it means mentally he or she belongs to someone else. Moreover, in eastern culture female finds emotional infidelity to be a bigger offence. It is not like one tag sharing your feelings with someone as a betrayal! As long as one's spouse or partner is coming back to the same bed to sleep at night, they cannot be blamed for cheating.
Feroz Ahmed Bawany goal is to increase my knowledge and to understand the only civilized creations of Almighty Lord are HUMAN. He is a regular contributer to TRCB.com.
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